Play
I have been reading around the subject of play, this is what I have discovered…..
We all know that children learn best through play, but what is play?
Play is what people and children do, when they choose to occupy themselves, in their own way, with their own interests and ideas, in a way they want to.
Play is about freedom of choice. It allows us to meet friends and learn to socialize. It also lets us be active, both physically and mentally, therefore suggesting it is good for our health.
Play helps increase a childs self-esteem, as well as their self-awareness and confidence.
Children get to use their imagination, to become independent and creative. Through this, they can learn about problem solving and lots of things about their environment and life.
This all suggests to me that play is absolutely vital in a child’s life. However, there have been a number of studies which suggests, that over the second half of the 20th Century, there has been a reduction in the number of opportunities for kids to play. It also shows a link between this and an increase in stress and mental health problems.
I find this quite sad, play is fun and I believe, that is what childhood is all about. Children need play for so many reasons.
So, if the amount of play opportunities for children are reduced, why is that? I’m afraid I don’t have the answer to it, but, here are some of my ideas…..
- More parents work these days, for various reasons, which means more children are in childcare and not playing out with friends. My children, only get to play with their friends once a week, as their friends are not available any other time.
- There is so much technology available, children are now choosing to sit in front of the computer or television rather than play or see friends.
- Modern society, I believe can be getting in the way of our children playing. We live in a fast paced life, with so much to do, there seems to be less time available for play.
According to The Nemours Foundation, toddlers should not be idle for more than one hour at a time. It also suggests guidelines that children should have 30 mins of adult led physical activity a day and 60 mins of unstructured play a day. I wonder how many children achieve this??
It sounds like such a small amount of time out of a childs day, is it really that difficult to achieve? I don’t know, I would just like to raise this issue, to bring awareness of the importance of the need to let our children play.
What are your thoughts on the subject?
I agree that the way we live our lives now does limit the play opportunities out children have. I consider myself lucky to live where I do. There are always children playing out, they may come inside for half an hour on the psp,but they’re soon off out again, the bad weather doesn’t seem to bother them at all! Watching Fran play and make up little games is amazing. The things she learns from this free time to do as she wants is mind boggling.
Thats great, you are very lucky your children can do that. I am just hoping that when my children get older and can go out by themselves a bit more they will be able to find friends like that locally.
Very interesting reading. As I type this, my pair of having some unstructured playtime (I can tell by the noise level that it’s a lot of fun!), and we’re off for some soft play madness later so can tick off physical play today. I think you’re right with your suggestions about what may be reducing play opportunities, and I think as adults, we can overlook the importance of play, too, as we try to do our best educating and caring for our kids.
You’re right, often as parents we sometimes try too hard in educating, we need to remember to sit back and let the children just experience things for themselves sometimes, that can produce fun and learning at the same time.
Thanks for your comments x
Interesting article. I think we do quite well on the unstructured play front, the kids love it. Play is so important. #MMWBH
Great to know there are children playing and having fun
This was an great read, and kids need to be kids and do kid things! More fun that way! New follower and thanks so much for linking up with #MMWBH x
Thank you x
Fab post. I love playing with my kids, I think we rely far to much on things like tv and games consoles to entertain our kids these days #MMWBH x
Thanks, play is so important
I agree play is so crucial to childhood and adults have such an important role in providing opportunities for it. both indoors and out. I think that different kinds of play are important too. Like you say free play outside is great for letting off steam and keeping active and adult led play is crucial for learning and sparking imaginative play. At the end of the day it’s all about making time for children. Love what you’re doing x
Thank you very much
great read #MMWBH
Love this post!
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Thank you x
This is so true! Hubby & I read a great book called Playful Parenting which was a real insight into this field. Great post xx
Thank you. I may have to look that book out x
i think life has become way too serious and kids aren’t encouraged to have simple fun anymore imo. i think people have become lazy and constantly want to be entertained rather than make their own fun and adventure. i think technology is a big part of this unfortunately. i try to make life as fun and interesting as i can for my boy but i also believe kids should make their own fun and be given freedom to achieve this.
Very true. It can be difficult when you get swept away with general everyday life, but we need to keep reminding ourselves of the need for just basic play and fun.